Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you ask a girl to hang out?

i dont have alot of experience with this i just wanted to know how to do it- text, talk, call? I have hung out with people b4 i just want to know how to and where? Hanging out with a girls that i only know in school.





Also how do i start talking to someone i have no idea who they are- like when im on vacation somewhere.





fyi- im a guy :)How do you ask a girl to hang out?
how do you start talking to someone you have no idea who they are?





well, coming to college, i realized that if i don't initiate conversation, others usually do not. also, another problem for me is that i'm used to avoiding others eye contact, which makes it harder for others to approach me. so what i do is i make sure i keep my eyes free for the taking, and when someone glances over for more than a second, i smile. more than 3 seconds, i say hi. how are you doing. you know, little conversation starters. and this works for people who you do not know at all. after each exchange the ';how do you do'; conversation, you can begin another conversation. like finding out about the other person. what's his/ her name, what do they do, if you're in the same class, ask about how the class is, if you're waiting in the train station or something, you can ask where they are heading. and so forth.





really, speaking to strangers is quite easy once you got the first bit down. the initiation. and make sure you're interested. if not, why bother even talking in the first place? your interest will generate more questions, and hopefully, that interest is reciprocated.How do you ask a girl to hang out?
compliments are your first step. just don't overdo it, but otherwise a compliment is the easiest way to get a girl to talk to you.
Texting is too impersonal. calling is good. but try to talk with her directly, and if you dont want to get mobbed, catch her when shes alone.

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