Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How can i find a girl to hang out with?Advise please.?

Hello, I am 14 years old nice looking boy and i am very social person. I lik to hang out with my friends and go to places where we can have some fun etc.... Many of my friends have a girlfriend but i don't and the reason is i am extremely shy person. When i look at the girl that i like and when she looks at me back, i just turn around. I don't know what to do. There are lots of nice and pretty girls out here. Please give me soome advide what i should do when i go up to some girl and try to tlk to them and be friends...even if they don't know me. Let's say i saw a very nice girl and i know that she doesn't have a boy friend but she is hanging out with her friends. What should i do in that situation? Give me some advide how to get a girlfriend or something. Thx and bye.How can i find a girl to hang out with?Advise please.?
Just get to know some girls, first just say hi and how are you, any conversation starter, after that first time it should start getting easier to talk to girls. once you get to know them and you find out you like them, ask them out. If you just want to hang out with them just ask them if they wanna go see a movie or just hang out somewhere. just don't go up to them attacking them with ';will you go out with me's'; You'll be fine dude, good luck.How can i find a girl to hang out with?Advise please.?
when she looks at you, try looking back at her, she may be the one looking away! These actions are almost like flirting with her. By looking away as soon as she looks at you it show a lack of interest. When she is with her friends she is most confident, however when she is alone her support diminishes. You need to make her feel confident in order for her to like you. I am a very shy person as well. But if you pretend she is invisible and look ';through'; her, you may find a surprise.
why dont you approach her when you see that she moves away from her girlfriends.


when you see that shes alone come up to her.


try to make her laugh and try to get to strike up a conversation.


if you see she responds well, then ask her to go out somewhere with you wehre you can get to know her better


good luck!
me and my boyfriend met 5 yrs ago and we started dating 1 week ago. try approaching her alone so you aren't laughed at by your friends and she isn't either. a trick is if you take her to see a scary movie then comfort her, her emotions will be mixed up and the last emotion she felt was comfort by u, so she will love you. it is a proven scientific fact.
I felt the same way too when i liked someone for the first time. THey way i got to know them better, is I used the internet to chat. I became friends with the person i likes friend, then i got her msn and started chatting, then we started saying hi to each other at school, then i got her number, then we call each other .... easy ! Just try something similar to me
first you ask her can i talk to you she say yes starting walking so you can get away from the friends that's what get you nervous let her know you been watching her,do she have a man then keep the conversation going as long as she don't have a guy.
since a lot of your friends have girlfriends just ask one of your really close friends for help in not being so shy.





If you see a girl that you like don't be shy. just go up and say hey. you never know she might like you too and if you dont go talk to her you might be missing out.
Be yourself! That is the answer never be anything else. If you are shy that is ok she is too! Go to the mall and hang with your friends for examples. Look how your friends act and then u will learn...
well yes. but it does depend where you live and what kind of girl you are interested in. email me. for the record i am 14 and a good source of advice.
lol XD. i'll help but i need to know what type ur looking 4 and what type of guy r u. email me as my homepage and i'll see what i can do.
Just say hi. I am shy too, but once you start talking and ';break the ice,'; you will be good to go.
Find a girl that isn't shy and very outgoing, opposites attract. She might be able to loosen you up.
get drunk and go to a party.... youll get over your shyness and meet many girlss. then stop drinking go out with your friends one night adn do the same thing.. but sober.
You're 14. Chill. The guy i ';dated'; in jr high when we were 14 turned out to be BIsexual.... he is now fully gay. So just take it slow.. seriously, ur young
Awwww! You're sooo cute! You should always be polite and respectful to a girl when you approach her. Just be friendly. If she's mean (as a lot of girls your age are) don't take it personally. She's just immature and unsure of how to handle your attention.





If she responds favourably this is the important part: Don't show too much interest! Girls don't want a boy they can get too easily. If you're overly attentive or too needy you'll just end up in the friend zone!





Also, have confidence. Girls are attracted to it. Wimpy guys are as much a turn off as overly macho guys.





As for your question about approaching a girl who is hanging out with her friends: Wait until she's alone. It'll be easier to talk to her when she's not worried about her friends' reaction and it won't be so intimidating for you. Offer to buy her a soda or a snack. That should break the ice. Hope this helps!
well(im a girl just so you know) turning around is defenitly something you'll want to stop doing! tats a sign tothe girl that your not interested. well. in your situation you could possibly smile over to her. girls need those signs. def get to know the girl better. if you go to her school, when you see her in the hallway be like oh, did i see you at the mall yesterday?et. if you want to go all out say, that shirt lookes amazing on you. never say anything like that looks sliming, or anything that suggests that your saying shes fat, and that shirt or whatever is covering it up. if you were hanging with your firends, take one of them with you to help the conversation along if something goes bad, or if you need that extra support. girls can see right through a guy. if your nervous dont be. be confident and she'll adore that about you!also can i ask for a favor? i have a question for guys, and i need answers.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a> please help with this liked i helped with you! Much appreciated!
just ask one of the girls that you hang out with at school if they would like to come over (if that's ok with your parents) and watch a movie, or if you go to church take her there, that's a great thing to do with a friend that's a girl. Just remember keep everything clean. And if she is in a group of friends ask if you can hang out with them too, a girl likes it when a guy shows interest in what she does and has some of the same friends and interest. Most of all just be your self, I'm sure your a very sweet guy and that your really easy to get along with. Don't ';try'; to be their friend just do it.

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