Asking a girl to hang out?

im at university. theres a girl i sit next to in my classes that i really like. we get along really well. however im in danger of getting friend zoned.





tonight theres a halloween party at a club. before hand im going to her flat with all her my and her friends for pre drinks.





i was thinking after a while in the club if everything is going good ill take her away somewhere quiet and chat to her.





what i want to know is how to tell her i think shes really cool and want to get to know her and see how things go between. i dont want to ask her on a date though coz thats too formal. i was thinking asking her to hang out???





wording????Asking a girl to hang out?
What on earth?? You're at Uni man!





Firstly you shouldn't be getting hung up on just one girl... If you enter the 'friend zone' then so-be-it...





Secondly... Just go the party and enjoy, if she likes you and what's to get into your pants then I'm sure things will naturally progress...Asking a girl to hang out?
Girls know what ';hang out ';means, be formal. Ask her out on a date. That will turn her on becuase it shows your'e confident and a gentleman. Instead of asking to hang out ask her to talk on the phone with you. That way you get to know one another. After a few days on the phone then ask her on a date. I think if a girl is willing to spend a long time on the phone with you and tell you personal things abou her, you have a good chance of getting a date.
Do you think she likes you?





If you're getting some signals that she does, when you've had a bit to drink (i.e. enough to look like you're drunk, but not too much that you don't really know what you're doing) go in for a kiss at the club. That way she'll know you're into her, and if she rejects you, you can just blame it on the alcohol!





If you're not getting signals that she likes you, drop some hints that you like her - things like complementing her on her clothes or hair (but only if she's done something different or it looks really lame!)





Hope that helps! Good luck!!!
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just do what you want to do and asking her to hang that's cool and sounds different but don't leave her in the friend zone
Just ask her to hangout sometime alone...make sure you say ';Would you want to hangout sometime just me and you'; Well thats what Id say lol

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