ok so there is this girl that im starting to like talking to. she is pretty and i like talking with her on facebook and when i get to see her and she is always happy to see me and glad to hear from me when i message her.
well late last week and i asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. she said that sounds fun to her but she will let me know when she wants to.
now it hasnt been very long i know and i know she will most likely let me know, but just in case of that not happenign or she forgets, what do i do? how do i push again seeing if she wants to hang out? i really want to get to know her more and see if something developes because i think she and i connect pretty well and i would like her to be my date to a ball this semester.
and if there is any other advice you would like to give id appreciate that too.How to get to hang out with girl im intersted in without being pushy....?
sorry to say this, but i've done this before, and i've had it done to me before.
she didnt want to hurt your feelings, so she said another time. and that's what you do. give her time. without, she'll feel obliged to make a decision, and that decision will most likely be no.How to get to hang out with girl im intersted in without being pushy....?
maybe she feels you are coming on too strong, ease up a little and compliment her whenever you can, but don't go overboard and see how it works out.
She may very well have been putting you off with the ';I'll let you know when I want to'; business. How rude. She shouldn't lead you on and you shouldn't let her.
Be a tad more aggressive. Invite her someplace that is public and of mutual interest. Be specific about the date, time and place. Don't leave it in the air like you did by asking if she wanted to hang out sometime.
How to get around the stalemate you unwittingly imposed? Practice saying, ';Listen, I know you told me you'd let me know when you wanted to hang out sometime, but there's this (fill in the blank with place or event) on (fill in date) and I'd love your company.'; Preferably pick something that is happening for a few weeks, like a new movie release, or a museum exhibit so you can offer an alternate date.
Let's see her wiggle her way out of that one. If she does don't sweat it. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
if shes pretty and yer ugly, she will put you in the friend zone. sorry.
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