Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How should i ask a girl to hang out with me?

I know this girl in my class... we have rarely talked..... but she seems to be nice... but i messeged her on facebook that if she wants to hang out this weekend? and she hasnt responded yet even tough I see that she has done stuff on facebook like comenting on a status or something. So how should I approach her in class or after class... that if she wants to hang out sometime? I dont wana sound creepy or anything to her. (IM A GUY BY THE WAY NOT A GIRL AND I AM IN HIGH SCHOOL)How should i ask a girl to hang out with me?
You should confront her about avoiding you by telling her that you were FB stalking her. Girls love a good stalker. It makes them feel wanted.How should i ask a girl to hang out with me?
Don't walk up to her and be like '; Hey you want to hang out sometime? '; when you haven't really talked to her much. It might put her on the spot and she might feel forced to say yes. Try starting with a friendly '; Hey hows it going? '; And making small talk instead of stepping right into that. Then eventually ask her for her number and ask her if she wants to hang out. Tell her she can bring a friend if it will make her more comforable.
next time you see her, say hi and ask how she's doin n stuff. don't ask her to hang out again in person. If she doesn't want to hang out w/ you it'll just be weird. Just be casual and friendly... see if she's into talking to you. if not.. well move on... If she's read your mail and is interested.. she may just be writing and erasing over and over her response =) she may be shy who knows...
No offense, bro, but Facebook probably wasn't the best tool in this situation. Get a group of your friends together and plan something, then mention it to her like, ';Hey, me and some of my pals are thinkin' about going to .....(movie, etc.) this weekend. Care to join us?'; If she says no, it's no big deal, man; you'll still go somewhere and have fun with your friends. If she says yes, who knows what could happen?
well im a girl and well you have to get to know a girl first and then ask her that's how i would do it if i were a guy but yeah that's how she wont get creeped out by you. (:


sorry if this doesn't help but from what i know it works.
Just see if you can make conversation with her (like, omg, I'm taking ___ class and it's annoying, or the teacher did ___ the other day, omg it was hilarious)....after a few times talking to her *then* ask her out.
you should talk to her a little bit more, learn more things about her so when an if; you guys hang out it wont be akward. And the asking parts easy, just go up to her an say.. um do you want to hang out sometime? easy enough, right?
since ur in high school, i suggest u get into sports, girls like guys that are in shape n athletic

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