Should i ask this girl to hang out this weekend? 10 points to best answer?

Ok, a girl and i had a great thing going (both freshmen in college). She really liked me and i really liked her, we would spend time getting to know each other and she would ask me to walk with her to class and to dinner and such. Anyways, i was with her one night and asked her to dinner off campus, and she said yes. the next day when i asked her where she wanted to go, she said i don't care but is this a friendly date or something more, and i stupidly told her that i liked her and it came out like i wanted to start a relationship. she basically said she wasnt ready for a relationship (Yeah, no duh, we had only known each other for 10 days) but not that we would just be friends.





Anyways, time passed, i got pissed off, lost 20 lbs, put on a lot of muscle, saw different girls and she actually saw me once with another girl and got really jealous. after that, in class (we have 1 class together), she started dressing really nice and trying to show off her chest to me, touching my arm to ask me a question, and being really laughy when i would tell her about my weekends and she would stare right into my eyes when we talked.





then, the other day she asked me to the library (first time she asked me to go anywhere in a while) and the whole time we were there we just made jokes with each other, and we were being so loud that we got nothing done and the librarian yelled at us several times. also, she kept asking me personal questions like who i was hanging out with and if i was having fun and i told her i was really having a great time and she kind of seemed to be in shock and i asked her how she was liking everything and she was like ehh, im not really having that much fun, i don't really do that much.





Anyways, our night ended in more laughs and today in class she actually walked with me after class and we actually had really good and fun conversations in class (she remembers everything i say, always asks if i have met a few of her friends, since there was a two month interstice when we just stopped hanging out, and asks me to join clubs she's in, saying i should join too), and she's always like, when we talk about our plans for the weekend, she just laughs and is like, well i'll probably just do laundry and hang out in my room on friday night, and she's being serious. I truly believe she is interested, i can see it in her eyes. Anyways, where should i go from here? should i wait for her to ask me to do something or should i ask her? To be completely honest, i dont even know if me changing my body had any difference, because she really seemed into me before, and i love her personality, and i really think she likes mine.Should i ask this girl to hang out this weekend? 10 points to best answer?
You really seem like one great guy..I just have to tell you that haha:) Anyway, I'm in college as well so I know what you're going through. I think you should really give it another shot. Maybe just start going to dinner on campus first and see how that goes. That way, it's not too serious. Then, if all goes well..a few weeks later you could ask her to go to dinner off campus..but give it some time. Just take things slow and really spend some time getting to know each other and enjoying each other's company. And see how she responds. It seems like she's really into you as well. You don't have to start a relationship right away..and i wouldnt even tell her you like her. After spending more time together..she may realize how great you are and that she really likes you. Let me know what happens if you two go to dinner this week or something (on campus though) good luck:)Should i ask this girl to hang out this weekend? 10 points to best answer?
you should get someone better. she obviously wanted complete control over you and thought that u would wait for her no matter what. she only wants you because other people want u now. she didnt want you when you were not that attractive, now you are you can get way better than her. dont waste your time with someone who always changes her mind. what if you gained five pounds back and she stopped talking to you again. go for someone else
She totally likes you and was flirting with you. Call her and ask her out on a DATE for 5-7 days ahead. Have a time and location picked out. Girls like a guy who plans things. Make the date simple and fun. No serious topics. And do NOT talk to her between the phone call and date night.