Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do I ask this girl out?

Alright so I have never been good at asking girls out. I'm not shy and I am pretty outgoing, but when it comes to girls I have always been afraid of rejection. In the past, my relationships kinda just happened without me having to really ask the girl out. I'm sick of getting into relationships this way, the ';lucky'; way in my opinion because I did not put myself out on a limb.





Anyways, so I'm taking this class and theres this girl in it who seems nice and I think she's cute. I catch her looking at me sometimes out of the corner of her eye. We kinda slowly started talking with small talk, like asking how we both did on tests and stuff. When we make eye contact we smile at each other and that's about it. I'm pretty sure there's a spark and I know being the guy I need to do something. If I don't make a move by the end of the class, I will probably never see her again. I just want to get a chance to know her better and maybe hang out and see what she's all about. What should I do?How do I ask this girl out?
You could try the old fashioned way of walking her home or you could ask her if she would like to go after class drink a coffee or eat something .....really it is not so hard to do , remember she is probably more nervous then you ......good luck and I hope she say yes .


..................Katie :-)How do I ask this girl out?
Just be a little subtle about it. Make an excuse to not be so forward. This worked for me: ';Hey, i wanted to call you the other night but i didn't have your number?';. I did wanna call, but i knew i didn't have her number. And it could be for any reason, to ask her on a date, about homework, etc. :-)





Otherwise: ';Me and my friends are going to movies on friday, are you keen you come with?';. It's a group event, it's not a date, but of course you are gonna kiss her? If you don't, well you had a awesome time with a good friend :-)
Dive into it man, present yourself, make eye contact (important), introduce yourself if you guys don't know each other already, and just ask her to hang sometime. 99 out of 100 times you will not recieve a ';yeah sounds great'; answer. Learn how to be charming and persuasive.
Well there is many ways you can do this but what you should do is grow a pair tell her you would like to have a Coffee or to go see a movie risk it you never know what might happen





ps you have luck on your side.
';Hey. Want to do something this weekend?'; Pretty easy. Sounds like she is digging you already so it should be simple. And if you ask her in a way that makes it seem more like hanging out, it won't seem so formal 'date'-like





Good luck!
Just ask her if she wants to go out for a coffee one weekend or something, at the end of class one day. It doesn't have to be a massive declaration of love with roses and fanfares... just a casual question :)
this might sound corny, but you should find out her number from a friend or such, and text her.. if she asks how did you get my number,? say don't worry about it if she asks u more that once tell her.
just ask her out, its worth to do something rather than not doing anything..if she say yes, then its good,if she says no, you don't loose anything, right...?


good luck..;))
you should just put it out there that you like her:) good luck.

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