Girl hangs out with me, never mentions bf?

This is my first asked question, so bare with me haha. okay well this girl who i had a college class with has been hanging out with me lately. we didnt really talk alot while in the class but when the class was completely done we talked/texted for like a month. well then one evening she texts me and is like ';hey what are you doing tonight'; so i said ';nothing you?'; she said ';nothing...'; im not very good with girls, but i figured this was a set up for me to say ';wanna do something?'; so she said yes and we ended up playing tennis. (we took different cars) then a few days later we play tennis again, except this time i pick her up. after playing we sat on a swing set and talked for a few hours, talking about past relationships and such. well that night while on facebook i got an add friend from some dude. i rarely ever turn anyone down, so i accepted. well he messages me and is like hey, im like who is this? he is like ';_____'s BF'; im like ';oh i didnt know she had one'; he said it was okay to hang out as long as we are friends. then she texts me 3 mins later and tells me she is sorry and figured i knew she had a bf from her fb profile, which i didnt...well then days pass and she texts me in the morning asking if i want to go take pictures, so i said yes (by this point i really like her). so we go, i pay for everything we go to a lighthouse, walk on beach then i take her home. then like 30 mins later she texts me and says ';thanks again that was real fun'; and later in our convo proposes to do another activity soon. well after hanging out with her there i really really like this girl. some additional info is that her bf is in the army and is gone for like 4 months, also she is at this college, so she really doesnt know alot of people since her family is 3 hours away. so what should i do? anything will help, and i am sorry this was so long haha


23 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer.


Additional Details


oh and from friends i have been told to ignore her and move on. easier said then done but i was for a few days, then she asked me if i wanted to hang out this friday, which i said i couldnt. also i am honestly a good guy and do not want to be a jerk and take someone's girl, but i am not very good with the ladies so i don't like the whole ';other fish in sea'; thing.





plus did she lie to me by not telling me about her bf? we talked about bf's/gf's for a good hour shouldnt she have mentioned she had one? plus does she even like me?





yeah i like her alot..truly first girl i've really like. also she does show signs like playfully hitting me. she shows signs, but since she has a bf, i have no idea how to act on them.Girl hangs out with me, never mentions bf?
Basically your not a jerk but she is. She is kind of stringing you along and letting you treat her like your date. But that's not fair to you, you have to stop paying and taking her on dates. Don't get with her while she still is with her bf because more than likely when he gets back in four months she'll be back with him and leave you wondering what you did wrong. And what you did wrong was date a girl who already had a boyfriend. Sorry to sound blunt but you really have to ask yourself what is going on in her head. I think she's just lonely.Girl hangs out with me, never mentions bf?
Honestly I would suggest you stay clear of her. For her to not even take the time to mention being in a relationship doesn't bode well for her honesty. Ignoring her, it would be a really terrible thing to do to a service member (or anyone for that matter) to take his girlfriend from him regardless of her loyalty. Finally I'd suggest you consider the fact that if she really is interested in you her actions to this point suggest she's willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, and whats to keep her from doing that to you if she decides she will leave him for you?
sounds like she's confused. she likes you but she's also tied into a relationship with someone whom she probably hasn't had the chance to speak with face to face in a long time. she's probably sexually frustrated and lonely while her boyfriend is gone. My advice? be careful. she likes spending time with you now but does she like you more than her boyfriend??? perhaps you're filling the void while he's away. if I were you I'd tell her- you like her but you're not gonna be boyfriend #2. she has to choose.
bro, dont act on them. situations like this really suck for someone, no matter what decision you choose to make. she's totally in the wrong here, she should have told you she had a bf when you were talking about relationships and stuff, and i know how you feel. keep being friends with her if you really like her though. thats how i met the girl whos my best friend now and ive never liked anyone more in my life. if you really like her, respect her by not having her cheat or break up with her bf. you guys can be friends, and in my experience, its usually better that way