Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do I ask this girl to hang out without sounding lesbian?

I am a girl so this isnt a date thing. I just moved to Alabama with my boyfriend %26amp;%26amp; I have absolutely no friends here. Yesterday his sister invited a few friends over to go swimming and hang out. Well there was this one girl in particular who was super nice %26amp; I wanted to know exactly how I could ask her to hang out with me sometime without it sounding weird.





Thanks for the advice in advance.How do I ask this girl to hang out without sounding lesbian?
Why would it sound weird? Have you never had girlfriends before? I ask my female friends over (and they ask me) all the time...even in the beginning when we expressed a desire to sociaize and get to know one another we never took it as a sexual thing...it was part of making friends 鈽?br>




Ask her to lunch or something and start getting to know one another more...How do I ask this girl to hang out without sounding lesbian?
well talk to her. and if you moved there with your boyfriend then bring that up or something.. and then ask her if she wants to hang out. shes not guna think you're a lez.
just say ';hey do you want to hang out and not have lesbian sex?'; she won't suspect a thing. :)
I am from Alabama and I don't think that would sound lesbian. Like a comment said above ask her with your boyfriend present. Let her know that you don't have any friends here yet and you want a girl to hang out with.
Okay this is what I picture. U met some friends of Ur boyfriend sister, of all the friends that was there was this one girl there who was super nice, which means she stood out more then the others (right?) okay, because she stood out more then the others that made her more int resting then the others and because of that u rather hangout with her( right) if she was the one who was more int resting whats wrong with u wanting to hangout with her? I'd like to first point out that





a woman asking another woman to hangout doesn't make her a lesbian (Okay)=-)











Now,,,,,,is it that u don't know how to approach her to ask her to hangout or u think that u should be hanging out with Ur boyfriend's sister not her super nice (more interesting friend)





U can hangout with whomever u want, if u and his sister didn't hit it off so what?








Good Luck =-)
You should just saw that you and a couple of friends are hanging out and probably going to go swimming and would she like to go. Easy as that.
talk to her and ask her if she would like to go do some thing with you. Have something specific in mind like a shoping date at a particulare time. Tell her that you hve just move there and have few friends. when you met her you thought that she could be one so you took a chance and here you are. She will probable be a little flattered that you thought she was a nice person and you will probably have a very nice story to tell about how the two of you became friends. Honest is the best way to go here.
well, lol if you have a boyfriend and your new in town, she will probably understand that your just trying to make new friends.


Ask her to go shopping with u or something.
Ask her very nicely to hang out with you. very few girls would think this is a lesbian opportunity. believe me, she'll be happy you asked.
just say hey wanna be friends and if she's a lesbian go with it but if she gets naked with u try to stop it or see if u like it
You already did. Tell her what you wrote. However or whenever you get in contact with her, just say: ';I don't want this to sound wierd, but you seem like a very cool person to hang out with.
say ';hi wanna do something sometime, mabey we could hit the shops this weekend eh? '; heres my number ...................... hope to see you around';
Why would that sound weird? Just ask her with your man around.
Be honest. Tell her you just moved there and need a friend to kinda show you around and show you whats hot and whats not.
this doesn't sound lesbienish, ask he if she would like to hang out sometime and if she looks at you like your lesbien then shes the weird one lol
either just go up and start a conversation with her and gradually ask her to hang out -or- you could ask your sister how she got them over -or- you can ask your sister ti invite them over again so u and you can ask the girl then





hope it helped!
I dnt know why it'l sound lesbian.well i think you explain things to her like how much you enjoy her company and that you want to hang out with her more often.Wait till you hear her response then you can tell her that its harmless,you are straight not lesbian.give it a shot.

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