Alright. I went out with my ex for a year and then for the past half year,i've been trying to get my ex back. Throughout this past year he was talking and hanging with girls,etc. No hooking up or anything like that. So,he ended up going to a party and something happened there which made me absolutely livid/upset. Since that happened,i told him i was done with him. I started going out wherever,hanging with friends,talking to guy friends,etc. Might I add that he was controlling and didn't like me doing ANY of this like going out,hanging with friends,talking to guys,and other stuff too. (Which he was doing the past half year but with girls when i was committed to him).
Anyways,now that he sees that i'm going out places and talking to people (nobody more than a friend),he wants to know what happens with me EVERY DAY like who i talk to ,where i go,who i hang with if i hang with anyone. If i tell him i talked to one of my guy friends,went somewhere,etc...he'll yell at me and say that what i did was wrong. YET when HE does what i'm doing but 10 times worse(which what i'm doing isn't even bad. For example,i went to the mall today and he thought that was the worst thing i could have done by the way he was yelling at me), he thinks it's ok for him to do it though..but yet he thinks he can yell at me and say that i'm wrong even though he's doing it!
Also,every day when he wants to know what happens with me...at the end of our convo., he always says that he doesn't care what happens with me and always makes a threat like ';now i'm going to my friends party since you did that'; (cuz he knows I absolutely HATE when he goes to parties.
CLEARLY,he does care still if he wants to know who i'm talking to ,what i'm doing,etc. I'm going to add here too that I want to know stuff about him too but that's because i'm still in love with him and scared that he'll find another girl but at least i admit it.
Another thing is that over last weekend,we hung out and things were really good and he mentioned how he's scared of me being with another guy.
So,my question is why do you think he's doing this and why do you think that he wants to know everything that goes on with me and yells at me but then says he doesn't care even though he gets mad and stressed out if i talk to a guy friend or go places like tanning,mall,etc.? and please don't say ';he's your ex for a reason'; or anything like that,please. I just want answers/opinions to what you guys think about why he's doing this and saying he doesn't care. Thank you.Ex boyfriend says he doesn't care but yet wants to know everything that goes on with me?
An ex will always feel some sort of attachment to their ex, it's never easy for anyone to break up, his denying it is a sign that he does like you, he's saying it to cover himself up.Ex boyfriend says he doesn't care but yet wants to know everything that goes on with me?
Hell0 Samantha,
Ironic! 1 suffer the same problem earlier like y0urs=
';I know I asked this yesterday but I just want more opinions,thank you.
Alright. I went out with my ex for a year and then for the past half year,i've been trying to get my ex back. Throughout this past year he was talking and hanging with girls,etc. No hooking up or anything like that. So,he ended up going to a party and something happened there which made me absolutely livid/upset. Since that happened,i told him i was done with him. I started going out wherever,hanging with friends,talking to guy friends,etc. Might I add that he was controlling and didn't like me doing ANY of this like going out,hanging with friends,talking to guys,and other stuff too. (Which he was doing the past half year but with girls when i was committed to him).
Anyways,now that he sees that i'm going out places and talking to people (nobody more than a friend),he wants to know what happens with me EVERY DAY like who i talk to ,where i go,who i hang with if i hang with anyone. If i tell him i talked to one of my guy friends,went somewhere,etc...he'll yell at me and say that what i did was wrong. YET when HE does what i'm doing but 10 times worse(which what i'm doing isn't even bad. For example,i went to the mall today and he thought that was the worst thing i could have done by the way he was yelling at me), he thinks it's ok for him to do it though..but yet he thinks he can yell at me and say that i'm wrong even though he's doing it!
Also,every day when he wants to know what happens with me...at the end of our convo., he always says that he doesn't care what happens with me and always makes a threat like ';now i'm going to my friends party since you did that'; (cuz he knows I absolutely HATE when he goes to parties.
CLEARLY,he does care still if he wants to know who i'm talking to ,what i'm doing,etc. I'm going to add here too that I want to know stuff about him too but that's because i'm still in love with him and scared that he'll find another girl but at least i admit it.
Another thing is that over last weekend,we hung out and things were really good and he mentioned how he's scared of me being with another guy.
So,my question is why do you think he's doing this and why do you think that he wants to know everything that goes on with me and yells at me but then says he doesn't care even though he gets mad and stressed out if i talk to a guy friend or go places like tanning,mall,etc.? and please don't say ';he's your ex for a reason'; or anything like that,please. I just want answers/opinions to what you guys think about why he's doing this and saying he doesn't care. Thank you.';
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Hello, ok so you want your ex back, but you've got to look at it this way '' does he love you?
does he really care for you? Only you can answer that, its not for anyone to judge.
All i'm going to say is, do you really want him back? Someone who's going to watch over you 24/7 everything that you do, everyone that you talk to? I think the answers No. Personally it looks to me like he can walk all over you weather in a relationship or not. When he next rings and what your doing tell him its none of his Business. Yes, he may get angry, but who cares? He said he didn't care for you after all right? You've got to think whats best for you. You don't really want someone like that, you need someone who's going to treat you like you should be treated, someone who will make you happy. Yes, he could still like you, but he has no right in telling you what you can and can't do just because he can't control his jealousy. :)
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