Monday, August 16, 2010

Asking a girl to hang out?

I'm friends with a very nice girl that I met on a trip a few days ago. I want to hang out with her (and I'm pretty sure she wants to also) but I don't want it to seem like a date or anything when it's not. How should I phrase my question to her, and what are some things that we could do?Asking a girl to hang out?
maybe you could invite like 3 other friends over plus her. Then it wouldn't seem like a date, just a get together. You could just say ';well a few of my friends are coming over to watch a movie at my place. if you're not doing anything you could come check it out.';


idk that's just an idea. hope it helpedAsking a girl to hang out?
Easiest way to hang out without it being a date is to do stuff with other people. Get a group and go see a movie--something funny. Tell her to bring a friend if she doesn't know any of your friends!





Go have lunch somewhere, then just kind of see how things happen from there. Pick someplace that isn't fancy though, if you just want to ';hang out';. Moe's, Panera, any fast food place. Meet somewhere and get milkshakes or smoothies!! Perfect, since it's summertime!
Bring up some movie or actor that the two of you talked about and say, oh such-and-such's new movie is coming out, we definitely should go see that. Or if you you live near each other or can drive, if you're on the phone with her or i.m.ing each other, you could say, I'm starving, I'm going to get some pizza, do you want to come? Or (I'm having lots of good ideas now), you could say, I'm going to Barnes and Noble to find that book you were telling me about, you want to keep me company? Good luck!
say something like ';hey i read in a review that this restaurant (or movie, club, etc...) is pretty awesome.. none of my friends are available to go and i don't want to go alone.. want to join me?'; if she says no.. just casually say ';ok just thought it would be fun.. maybe another time'; if she says yes then good on ya! :)
Do a group hang out. Like ask a guy friend if he and one of his ';girl friends'; want to come out with you guys or go out with even more than just two people. Do a big group social and like go to a pizza parlor or go out to lunch or dinner. That's hardly ever misunderstood ;)
start joking around in a conversation and then bring up a line like ';hey we should have a movie marathon'; or be like '; aww i really want to get that (watever you the object is) , we should soo go to the mall together and get it';
Don't worry, as long as you don't say anything romantic like ';just the two of us'; she will probably just be glad to chill. Just make it clear you miss her and you would like to stay in touch
just say are comin out im always sayin it to the lads n the lads say it to me then we go the park or shoppin or sumthin if u dnt want it to seem like a date she can bring a mate n u can bring a mate
Just ask her if she's doing something over the weekend,


if shes not doing anything then invite her to the movies and go see the movie Wall-E.
just say hey you seem really nice do you want to hang out some time..... and if she asks say only like friends..... but wait till you really get to know her before really asking her out us girls are a little tricky!
ask her to the mall or something... go shoppin' together... it's innocent enough.
be casual. be like ';do you wanna hang sometime';


-movies


-mall


-bowling alley


ask her what she likes to do and think of places from there
just be like


';yo, wanna chill?'; lol if thats not ur vibe then just ask her if she wanted to hangout


go to the mall, beach, anything.
Go to the local park and talk.
go to a movie.


just ask if she wants to hang out.
say do you want to go and see a movie and make your move
Hey, wanna hang out?
or take her to hang out with some other friends so it's less awkward?
be like i saw a preview for this good movie we should go see it some time as good friends











Good luck man

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